2021.10.16 13:21 coykoi46 Boyfriend liking photos of women’s bodies/ cleavages
I’ve been with my boyfriend almost a year and he’s been great, very understanding and empathetic the whole time. I’m f 26 and he’s m 23. I am admittedly a fairly insecure person but I believe he loves me, finds me attractive, that I am attractive sometimes etc. I know I found out about him doing this through being insecure but my reaction to it isn’t because I am insecure.
He posts on Instagram fairly often, he’s a good looking guy, he just started modelling. Every now and again I will look through who has liked his posts. I know this isn’t the healthiest thing, but it also isn’t completely out of the ordinary. I’ve started doing it more in recent weeks because I noticed a pattern I didn’t like. He will only like photos of other women when their cleavage is obviously in photo, it’s some thirst trap pose, a pic of their arse/ underwear etc. This would honestly make more sense to me if he liked the photographs of just their faces, them looking pretty fully dressed, them with friends, anything else, but it’s genuinely a pattern of just likes on photos of tits. I could pick almost any woman he follows, go through her account, come across the first image of her body and he will have liked it. The main emotion this makes me feel is disappointed or that he’s a little bit pathetic, or worried other people will think he’s desperate. I’m not blaming these girls for posting like this. If I post a photo with cleavage or whatever and men I vaguely know only like those ones and nothing else I kind of roll my eyes.
I have posted my boyfriend on my Instagram four times now. I’m not on his once. This hasn’t been a big deal to me until right now. I just think it’s quite lame. It doesn’t look like he has a gf. We had a phone call last night where I brought it up and he was furious and defensive. I said I think it looks a little bit cringey, which maybe is harsh, but we are normally a very honest couple, he hung up on me and ignored me for five hours before just saying “I don’t care about any of this. I’ll see you tomorrow. I love you very much”. I’m not a perfect person and I don’t know what to really say now. I am not even asking him to stop doing this, I just thought he could self reflect on how it might look or whatever. I’m seeing him in person later today
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2021.10.16 13:21 raevilman Update on 10bit or 8bit with HDMI or DP cable on Lenovo Gaming Monitor G27q-20
2 months back I posted here the vlog on Lenovo G27q-20 monitor -> https://www.reddit.com/Lenovo/comments/p4zyvs/recorded_a_video_about_lenovo_gaming_monito
Today, I was trying 10bit and 8bit color modes with DP and HDMI cable, so sharing the vlog on that as well.
Hope it helps someone. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYzLW2RbOX0
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2021.10.16 13:21 Night_Hood 27 [M4F] [Friendship] [Relationship] As the temperature starts to lower the need for someone to cuddle with rises maybe you're the one? Doesn't hurt that I can cook for you as well
Maybe it's just online via chat because we live so far away but we can still keep eachother company on these cold nights.
The pandemic has made it harder to make connections but I think it's time I at least give it a chance and put myself out there to see how we get along as a friends and if it goes beyond that.
I have a few hobbies video games being one, we could spend the nights playing together, so how about you send me a message and find out more. I will say that I'm a bit of a pessimist, but nothing wrong with that...I think. I'm a bit of an introvert but decent at hiding that that behind some humor.
I have no issues with talking to people from anywhere in the world, I'm always curious to learn about more cultures and hopefully being about to travel to them someday once some sense of normalcy has returned.
Got any random fact about yourself you think will catch my attention? Want to know what I look like send me a pic and I'll send one right back.
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